giving and receiving are both peak, and the particular methods aren't super important as long as we're on the same page about being clean (using wipes or having showered beforehand), and being enthusiastic. I feed off of others' enthusiasm so if you're reluctant or you're only doing it for my sake, it won't feel good for either of us. I'll know.

It's a meal after all, so treat it with respect! That means preparing it lovingly, plating skillfully, and ensuring it's safe to eat. It also means using your manners, showing your appreciation to the chef, and being polite when it isn't to your liking.