Robin.
McLarmen
Silverstone, UK
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Folks. · 18d

Well, what if it’s someone rather than something?

Folks. · 19d

Hi, Robin. Has anything caught you off guard in a good way lately?

Folks. · 3mo

Hi Peter, have you got your eye on anyone these days?

Not as far as I know, no. But you never know what might happen, do you? We’ll see.

Folks. · 3mo

Thank you, Robin. But if you could go back, do you think you’d still choose not to tell her or sometimes wish you had just been honest about how you felt? What do you think about her feelings toward you? Don’t you ever wonder if maybe she felt the same way too?

Honestly, I’ve wondered about it sometimes. There are moments when I think maybe I should’ve just been honest, but I also don’t really regret keeping it to myself. Things stayed comfortable between us, and I didn’t want to risk changing that.

As for her feelings, I really don’t know. There were definitely moments that made me wonder if maybe she felt the same way, but I never wanted to assume anything. I guess I’ll never really know unless she tells me herself.

Folks. · 3mo

How long you guys have been friends? You really don’t have to answer if that’s too personal though, no pressure at all. And thank you for being so open and answering all my little questions. I really appreciate it.

Oh, we’ve been friends for quite a while haha. I do remember how we first became friends, but it’s been a good while now. And no worries, I really don’t mind your questions. Happy to answer them.

Folks. · 3mo

Maybe I should just do what you did and let things be. But if you don’t mind me asking though… how do you feel about her now? Did you eventually get over your feelings?

I don’t think I ever fully got over it. I guess the feelings just aren’t as intense as they used to be, and with time, I’ve learned to just let them be. Since I never told her how I felt, nothing really changed between us either. I still care about her and treat her well, but I don’t really expect anything from it anymore.

Folks. · 3mo

So, since you never really confessed… do you still have that best friend around? Like, do you guys still talk normally and stay close now? I’m kinda in the same situation right now. I have a crush on my best friend, but I’m scared to say anything because what if it just ruins the friendship and makes everything awkward after that?

Honestly, yeah, we’re still friends and still talk normally to this day. I guess I just let things be and never really forced anything, and somehow we stayed close without making it complicated.

Folks. · 3mo

What do you do when your crush is your best friend? Been there?

Well… been there. Honestly, I was the type to just let things run their course. We’d keep doing what we normally did without putting a label on anything. I never really confessed or tried to force it into becoming something. I just wanted to see where it would naturally go. Looking back, I think I was pretty comfortable just having that person around, even if there was something more underneath it.

Folks. · 3mo

thank you for answering, i was your mutual when your username is using this one on x. now that you're replying.. i'm not really sure to show myself it seems like i'm too eager haha.. any chance to open new friendship applications soon? maybe i'll swing by.

Oh wow, so it’s been a while then. And honestly, no worries at all. You’re always welcome. I’m not sure when I’ll be opening friendship applications, but feel free to follow me or reach out anytime.

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