I am going to make this very quick and polite, but given the severity of not only these allegations against Dexter, but the public's response to this, I am evidently a little upset.
I truly wish people were able to take allegations with zero proof or statement with a grain of salt. A vague anon formatted incorrectly is not a reliable source. I can understand the immediate panic after this, but the fact that even though these allegations have been debunked multiple times since they arose around 2023, and yet people still believe them, is truly shocking to me.
I have received many different "asks" posing faux concern. I have also received a version of the ask referring to Dexter as my "groomer and abuser". I want to put these allegations of Dexter grooming me to rest.
I am fourteen years old, and when me and him began speaking regularly, I was twelve. We were only "together" for about a week in 2024, though we realized we were more compatible as friends. I have never been groomed — nor have claimed to be groomed — by Dexter. Anyone saying otherwise is pulling shit straight out of their behind. I am unsure exactly what started these false allegations to resurge, though I can confirm without a doubt that each allegation is sourced from racists online who have seen and treated Dexter as a lolcow and have some personal vendetta against them. I can recall multiple times in which he would break down in my direct messages as he was doxxed, harassed, and threatened to be assaulted by these people. They have attempted to contact his mother over these false allegations, as well as have threatened to send items or people from apps to his home.
These false allegations do not only affect him, but myself, and many others. Roping him into fake drama is not nice, it is not respectful, and sending him racial stuff to "retaliate" is very cruel. To say that he was sexually and romantically involved with someone as young as twelve with zero evidence is weird. I have no reason to lie for him or anyone else.
People have always been invasive towards him about his race, simply because he is black-passing. Nobody should have to apologize for being what their race is. He has spoken to me about his envy of those with fair-skin or that were White/fully Asian. He has been called the hard-R by people on here. It's so weird to harass someone and try to honeypot them simply because they are Black online.
I do not feel safe interacting with anyone on here. I am doing this for my own wellbeing. In fact, he wanted me to continue having a presence on here. But if you think I am going to stand here and be casual among others who have likely held a hand in his ongoing battle with himself due to his skin color, you are mistaken. I am doing this out of solidarity with my closest friend. To lie and say these things and post him on forums made to poke fun at people is incredibly wrong.
I understand people will question and ridicule me for my stance, but I cannot understand how people will see this, see his response, and still choose to be cruel and spread those lies.
Thank you for reading. I don't plan to come back here given the nature of this community. I hope you all stop taking things at face value and truly look deeper into things. I hope you will question your sources and fact check information, as allegations like these can and have ruined lives.

I am going to make this very quick and polite, but given the severity of not only these allegations against Dexter, but the public's response to this, I am evidently a little upset.
I truly wish people were able to take allegations with zero proof or statement with a grain of salt. A vague anon formatted incorrectly is not a reliable source. I can understand the immediate panic after this, but the fact that even though these allegations have been debunked multiple times since they arose around 2023, and yet people still believe them, is truly shocking to me.
I have received many different "asks" posing faux concern. I have also received a version of the ask referring to Dexter as my "groomer and abuser". I want to put these allegations of Dexter grooming me to rest.
I am fourteen years old, and when me and him began speaking regularly, I was twelve. We were only "together" for about a week in 2024, though we realized we were more compatible as friends. I have never been groomed — nor have claimed to be groomed — by Dexter. Anyone saying otherwise is pulling shit straight out of their behind. I am unsure exactly what started these false allegations to resurge, though I can confirm without a doubt that each allegation is sourced from racists online who have seen and treated Dexter as a lolcow and have some personal vendetta against them. I can recall multiple times in which he would break down in my direct messages as he was doxxed, harassed, and threatened to be assaulted by these people. They have attempted to contact his mother over these false allegations, as well as have threatened to send items or people from apps to his home.
These false allegations do not only affect him, but myself, and many others. Roping him into fake drama is not nice, it is not respectful, and sending him racial stuff to "retaliate" is very cruel. To say that he was sexually and romantically involved with someone as young as twelve with zero evidence is weird. I have no reason to lie for him or anyone else.
People have always been invasive towards him about his race, simply because he is black-passing. Nobody should have to apologize for being what their race is. He has spoken to me about his envy of those with fair-skin or that were White/fully Asian. He has been called the hard-R by people on here. It's so weird to harass someone and try to honeypot them simply because they are Black online.
I do not feel safe interacting with anyone on here. I am doing this for my own wellbeing. In fact, he wanted me to continue having a presence on here. But if you think I am going to stand here and be casual among others who have likely held a hand in his ongoing battle with himself due to his skin color, you are mistaken. I am doing this out of solidarity with my closest friend. To lie and say these things and post him on forums made to poke fun at people is incredibly wrong.
I understand people will question and ridicule me for my stance, but I cannot understand how people will see this, see his response, and still choose to be cruel and spread those lies.
Thank you for reading. I don't plan to come back here given the nature of this community. I hope you all stop taking things at face value and truly look deeper into things. I hope you will question your sources and fact check information, as allegations like these can and have ruined lives.