Really tough. I don't think there's really any kind of "do this and I'll be horny" kind of thing? I guess I would just respond proportionally to the neediness of my partner, because someone wanting to use me to get off also makes me get off lmao

Sorry if this answer kinda sucks, I don't have enough um. real experience to give a concrete answer and all of this comes pretty close to the embarrassment threshold >///<