i wouldn’t call myself a stan, more like a fan or someone who follows ald1 but dang i almost stop being one because of individual fandoms fights (and a few being subtly hostile to people who like/love certain duo and members). i left one social media/community because of that, come to twt (after using xcancel for so long), and people are fighting here too. now tell me what do i need to do to find normal, peaceful community to lurk/interact in. sigh.