apr. 26 '26
hello all,
how do social/interpersonal labels impact your life? are you fond of tagging your relationships as "friendship" "best friendship" "peership", and the like?
labels dont really matter to me mostly because im aplspec... it makes others feel bad. i can call anyone a friend even if i dont consider them a proper friend!!
I don't really care for labels that much I think #TBH #NeverHaveNeverWill
Being friends is enough for me and the only label I have ever put on anyone ever really.. Unless I am clarifying something for better understanding? Maybe? I have never actually thought about this before.. Hmmmm I guess I do label people in familial ways for fun? Or maybe it's 'cuz I grew up with a big family and it comes natural for me to think of others like that
I think because I grew up lacking close friends, being able to label friendships feels very special to me. I always wanted a best friend as a child, and I did have one before we parted ways, and then my partners came and I consider them my best friends (alongside being my partners).
For example, some people on this site I consider as only mutuals. Sometimes oomfs if I feel that mutual is a bit too formal for them (not exactly based on closeness, but how I perceive them). Other times I consider them a friend (That's on Tetratto though). If they're just a little above a friend (like very), I give them their own sort of status. Like Rodya as my #NiiChan, or Agustine as my #Twin. Another I gave "oomf kun" as it's unique enough, even if it's with "oomf".
its hard for me to distinguish a friendship or call something a friendship, especially with people online, mostly because i have a hard time knowing if its a mutual feeling. id just say i have a lot of acquaintances. as for a label like "best friend", im very fond of it because it describes a much more intimate relationship i have with some of my friends, i dont like to throw it around lightly. its also because im kinda sorta afraid? of anybody whos not my best friend regardless if we are friends.š
I can only really tag it if they're really close to me. like @solace is my best friend in the whole wide world but with anyone else its tricky
im not really fond of labelling, as the other person might not feel the same way, and also mostly because i simply dont feel the need to! i like it a lot better when labels are vague but weāre still chill with each other and bonding, im not entirely sure why..
thoughh, i cant deny that sometimes a little clarification or support is needed, especially if the other person and i dont talk much!
irl i easily am able to tag my relationships like "my therapist" "my friend" "my family" but when it's online it gets trickier because i dont truly know what the other person is so i never really tag them, especially on here. and my memory issues dont help at all, i dont remember most of everyone here (idk if im answering correctly im not the best with words)
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