Hmmmm... Hard to answer something like this without an exact measuring stick, but I'm going to assume that 1 = just a little bit of pudge and 10 = bed-sized. Once you start getting to sizes beyond that, it starts getting hard to rank it on a ten-point scale.

It depends on my mood tbh, sometimes I go bigger while sometimes I go smaller. Right now I'd say I'd say somewhere between 3 and 6 is where I'm at - pretty big but not so gigantically huge that they're helpless. For ref, that Sieg comm from Drunk Butterfly that I reposted earlier is what I'd consider abouuuut a 4 or so?

Big enough to cause problems (clothing malfunctions, unfitness, stuckage - LOVE stuckage), but not so big that they genuinely start being hard to do things with.

That being said, I don't hate any of those sizes! They're all good, but the bigger end of the scale is more of a sometimes thing than something I do all the time.