Not sure if this is a red flag or not, but I might get cancelled for this. I treat a relationship like an investment. I’m an observer; I need to see a clear ROI before I jump in.

I’ll never be a mokondo guy, but I’m also not giving more than I’m willing to lose. If the return isn’t what I want, it’s easy for me to leave. Some say that it isn’t “genuine,” but for me, you simply can’t love someone recklessly.